Thursday, May 15, 2008

State Supreme Court says same-sex couples have right to marry

San Francisco Chronicle
NY Times
The Court's decision summary

This is hitting me much harder than when it happened in Massachusetts. Is it because it is closer (a neighboring state, a western state)? Is it because I'm in a relationship that could eventually become a marriage? Is it because my sister is getting married in a Mormon temple in July?

Wednesday, April 9, 2008

Pray for Peace

by Ellen Bass

Pray to whoever you kneel down to:
Jesus nailed to his wooden or marble or plastic cross,
his suffering face bent to kiss you,
Buddha still under the Bo tree in scorching heat,
Adonai, Allah, raise your arms to Mary
that she may lay her palm on our brows,
to Shekinhah, Queen of Heaven and Earth,
to Inanna in her stripped descent.

Hawk or Wolf, or the Great Whale, Record Keeper
of time before, time now, time ahead, pray. Bow down
to terriers and shepherds and siamese cats.
Fields of artichokes and elegant strawberries.

Pray to the bus driver who takes you to work,
pray on the bus, pray for everyone riding that bus
and for everyone riding buses all over the world.
If you haven’t been on a bus in a long time,
climb the few steps, drop some silver, and pray.

Waiting in line for the movies, for the ATM,
for your latté and croissant, offer your plea.
Make your eating and drinking a supplication.
Make your slicing of carrots a holy act,
each translucent layer of the onion, a deeper prayer.

Make the brushing of your hair
a prayer, every strand its own voice,
singing in the choir on your head.
As you wash your face, the water slipping
through your fingers, a prayer: Water,
softest thing on earth, gentleness
that wears away rock.

Making love, of course, is already a prayer.
Skin and open mouths worshipping that skin,
the fragile case we are poured into,
each caress a season of peace.

If you’re hungry, pray. If you’re tired.
Pray to Gandhi and Dorothy Day.
Shakespeare. Sappho. Sojourner Truth.
Pray to the angels and the ghost of your grandfather.

When you walk to your car, to the mailbox,
to the video store, let each step
be a prayer that we all keep our legs,
that we do not blow off anyone else’s legs.
Or crush their skulls.
And if you are riding on a bicycle
or a skateboard, in a wheel chair, each revolution
of the wheels a prayer that as the earth revolves
we will do less harm, less harm, less harm.

And as you work, typing with a new manicure,
a tiny palm tree painted on one pearlescent nail
or delivering soda or drawing good blood
into rubber-capped vials, writing on a blackboard
with yellow chalk, twirling pizzas, pray for peace.

With each breath in, take in the faith of those
who have believed when belief seemed foolish,
who persevered. With each breath out, cherish.

Pull weeds for peace, turn over in your sleep for peace,
feed the birds for peace, each shiny seed
that spills onto the earth, another second of peace.
Wash your dishes, call your mother, drink wine.

Shovel leaves or snow or trash from your sidewalk.
Make a path. Fold a photo of a dead child
around your VISA card. Gnaw your crust
of prayer, scoop your prayer water from the gutter.
Mumble along like a crazy person, stumbling
your prayer through the streets.


Hat tip: Rev. Sean

Wednesday, March 26, 2008

Big changes have been working their way through my life. Some of them I don't feel comfortable writing about in a public, if semi-anonymous blog.

So instead, I'll write about the mundane:

  • I earned As in both my classes (Econ. and Accounting).
  • After discovering a problem with my brakes during my DIY Auto Maintenance class, I successfully got exactly (and ONLY) what I needed fixed for a reasonable price. It was great to feel like I knew what I needed, what the mechanic was saying, and how to make a good judgment about what to do.
  • I've been annoyingly sick--worst sore throat since college. I'm feeling better.
  • I'm planning a trip Philly in April and a trip to SLC in June.
  • I trimmed my own bangs (twice now since getting them in December). I'm great at this!
  • My apartment has begun to crawl with little black sugar ants as it does each spring through fall.
  • My new antidepressant combo is working beautifully!


So, life is mostly very good. I miss my family and friends, wish I could talk through some things with them.

Saturday, February 23, 2008

Grease monkey

I changed my own oil and oil filter today!!! I feel so fabulous and powerful.

Thursday, February 21, 2008

This made me smile!

Wednesday, February 20, 2008

Magical Evening

I saw a lunar eclipse for the first time in my life. Can you imagine Portland, OR, having a perfectly clear night in February?!!!! It was so freaking cool.

Then really good pizza with a friend.

Then the best music experience I've had in ages. Tiny venue, maybe 100 people in a converted old house--very Portland. Kym Tuvim--fabulous! Toshi Reagon--OMG I'm completely in love!

I can't remember ever seeing a human being who was made of music as much as Toshi Reagon. Her jaw, her neck, her shoulders, her arms, her back, her knees, her feet. She was so happy, so in the moment, so real. I just kept thinking that if I could start my day, every day, with Toshi singing and playing guitar I would be blessed the rest of the day with power, grace, joy, and love.

Wow.

Thursday, January 31, 2008

Can I get an amen?

How not to be an asshole: a guide for men (From Chris Clarke)

Who is Chris Clarke and how do I clone him?